Can Women Train Their Husbands?

There is a nagging question that many women often ask themselves. How do they train their husbands?  In a world where the rate of divorce is equal to the rate of marriages, any fresh ideas or techniques that can salvage marriages becomes enticing.

Two books—one new and the other old—deal with this issue of training husbands. Angela Christian Pope’s How To Train Your Husband (September 5, 2013) is short, concise and to the point. She offers practical recommendations to help women cope with their husbands and illicit from them the positive responses that will make their marriages better. Amy Sutherland’s book, What Shamu Taught Me About Life, Love and Marriage (2007), is unique because the author uses animal training techniques to train what she calls “that stubborn but lovable species, the American husband.”

Pope acknowledges that not all husbands and wives are the same of course, but many do share common traits. She then makes a bold statement, one that sums up the needs of that complex male creature we call a husband: “Other than love, which everyone needs, the two biggest things most men need in life are respect and sex.” If only women would understand that simple fact, their lives would be a lot easier. Simply put, according to Pope, men are biologically and inherently “wired for” for these needs. While many men would find this characterization of them very simplistic (alas, whatever happened to men’s obsession with male comradeship, sports, and power?), Pope interjects her expertise to bolster her claim. Other than her educational credentials, which include degrees in psychology and education, she has also counseled many couples. Still, her biggest accomplishment is the fact that she was once in a volatile marriage that lasted for 16 years and then later experienced and survived a bitter divorce. She has since been happily married again. In other words, she has seen it all—what works in marriage and what does not.

Training husbands is no easy task because men bring into their marriages some long entrenched behaviors. Interestingly, Pope also delivers a cautionary note for women: You can’t train your husbands unless you are willing to train yourself. In fact, the author makes it clear that what men do is generally react to what women do. She gives some general pointers to women as part of her husband-training:

1.      Avoid criticizing your husband in public and especially in front of the children. Such scathing criticism will “tear a man like nothing.”

2.      If you have to fight, do so fairly. That means no name-calling. There are certain words one has to avoid like “never” and “always.” Accusing your husband by saying he ‘never’ cleans or is ‘always’ late will make him defensive and unwilling to change.

3.      Don’t act like you are fine when in fact you are angry with him. Tell him why you are upset with him, but in a calm way.

4.      In terms of intimacy, avoid always having a headache. Men are not dumb and they know when they are being rejected with untenable excuses.

5.      Don’t play games with your husband because being honest is the best policy.

6.      Compliment him as much as you can. These acts of appreciation, indeed, will strengthen your relationship. In other words, don’t ever take him for granted.

7.      Keep your private life private. While it is a good idea to have a special friend whom you can confide in, it is always better not to divulge your marital secrets to others. Keeping your husband’s secrets is also paramount because it is a matter of trust.

Pope adds other recommendations as well such as making all important decisions together, praising him, showing your love instead of simply saying ‘I love you’ and never using sex as a weapon because if you do that, he will see you as “the enemy” instead of the object of his affection.” And finally, men need their personal space, so let him have guy time.

While Pope’s advice might seem paradoxically geared to making men happy, she in fact deals with the subject of training husbands as a kind of team work that can occur between couples. Tellingly, what is good for the goose is good for the gander. When the author tells women to respect their husbands, she also makes it clear that wives must also be respected in return; respect is never a-one-way-street.

Amy Sutherland’s book is a bit controversial because her techniques will raise some eyebrows. Sutherland was already an accomplished writer and the author of a bestseller, Kicked, Bitten, and Scratched: Life and Lessons at the World’s Premier School for Exotic Animal Trainers (2006) when she wrote an interesting article (the most viewed and e-mailed piece in the New York Times in the year 2006), called “What Shamu taught me about life, love and marriage.” Her book bears the same title.

According to Sutherland, “the key to marital bliss is to ignore negative habits and reward positive ones, the same approach animal trainers use to get killer whales to leap from their tanks, and elephants to stand on their heads.” Animal trainers use a method called the Least Reinforcing Scenario (LRS) which is: You reward the behavior you like and ignore the one you disapprove of. When a trainer notices a dolphin has done something wrong, he stands still for a few seconds without looking at the animal in the eye, and then he returns to the work. The idea is that any response from the trainer, either positive or negative, “fuels a behavior” but if an unacceptable behavior does not provoke any response that behavior simply dies out.

While Sutherland admits that her animal training technique is neither original nor a quick fix, she is adamant that the approach works for both genders.  

Sutherland was leading what seemed to be a happy life. Her loving husband, Scott, had many good traits but she was annoyed by his habits of constantly losing his keys and then bugging her about their whereabouts, leaving his dirty laundry on the floor, putting empty milk cartons back in the refrigerator, coming late to dinner appointments as she waited for him in restaurants, and crowding her in the kitchen as she cooked. Her concern was; how to deal with Scott’s annoying habits and free her marriage from these irritants. While researching her first book, she thought of adopting the techniques animal trainers use. Sutherland began to ignore Scott’s nagging questions about finding his keys; she started giving him snacks to munch in the living room while she prepared for dinner, and rewarded him by complimenting him every time he placed his dirty clothes in the hamper.

Her technique did work, and her marriage, in her own words, became “far smoother, her husband much easier to love.” She realized that her habit of taking his negative traits personally had been counter-productive. As the animal trainers’ motto says, “It is never the animal’s fault.”  She added, “The more positive I was with my husband, or more importantly, the less critical I was, the faster his husbandly defensiveness faded away.” When Sutherland asked her husband to do something, he responded positively. “He seemed at ease,” she noted, “maybe in a way he hadn’t before, he begun to trust me.”

Humans have the habit of not noticing good deeds and instead focusing on only the negative habits. For instance, parents do not notice the times when their children are riding in the car peacefully, but when one makes a mistake, there is an urgent need to dwell on that negative behavior. Husbands are also not noticed for all the good things they do for their family, argues Sutherland, but when one does not take out the garbage, all hell breaks loose.

When Sutherland says the technique works for both genders, she is right. One day, she went to the dentist and had crown work. For a week, she was in excruciating pain and kept complaining to Scott about her physical condition. Then, she noticed that her husband was quiet and kept listening to her as she whined without uttering a word. Suddenly, she realized what was going on. “Are you giving me an L.R.S? [i.e ignoring my constant whining] You are, aren’t you,” she asked. Scott smiled. It became evident to her that he was training her, the American wife. The phrase “Did you just shamu me?” became her husband’s typical response when he felt subjected to Sutherland ’tactics.  

 Sutherland implies that we are all animals but men are different animals than women animals. While humans are more complicated than other animals, there are universal “rules of behavior” that indeed “cut across all species.”

Husband training conjures up the notion that women have all the answers for making their marriages work better. Why is it that only women have to work harder than their husbands to make their marriages successful? Why do men need to be trained? As a rule, a trainer has the knowledge and the information a trainee lacks, but the two cited authors here see husband training as more of an effort to educate women about the simplicity of men’s needs and the predictability of male behavior. In reality, men are neither dogs nor dolphins who simply respond to certain stimuli. The trainer method of reinforcing the positive and ignoring the negative, however, is very effective in learning. But men are more complex specis than animals because animals don’t react to power the same way that humans often do. Animals see their trainers as their masters; humans don’t see others that way. Moreover, men are of course capable of training their trainer.

(Written by Hassan M. Abukar and reprinted with permission from Sahan Journal, 10/24/2013) 

Two Myths about Al-Shabaab You Probably Didn't Know

During the last few months, al-Shabaab, the al-Qaeda-affiliated Somali group, has shattered some of the misconceptions many have about the critical underpinnings of the group’s activities.  Indeed, some writers, including myself, have made assumptions about the militant group that are simply wrong. Two myths stand out.

1. Al-Shabaab is divided into two factions: Global jihadists and local nationalists

The recent discord among al-Shabaab leadership, especially evident in the bloody incident in Barawe in June 2013, resulted in two founders of the group being killed, Ibrahim al-Afghani and Moalim Burhan, while Hassan Dahir Aweys fell into the hands of the Somali government.

Al-Afghani, was an internationalist jihadi. Other leaders like Aweys, Mukhtar Robow, and Moalim Burhan, were considered to be more local leaders than global jihadists. In addition, two foreign jihadists — Osama al-Britani, a British citizen of Pakistani origin, and the American-born Omar Hammami, also known as Abu Mansoor al-Amriki — were killed in September 2013  by loyalists of Ahmed Godane, the supreme leader of al-Shabaab.

The two foreigners, al-Britani and al-Amriki, had impeccable credentials as global warriors. The nagging question is: Why would Godane, a man who is known for his commitment to global jihad, eliminate a group of fighters comprising global and national jihadists?

The answer is simple: The conflict among al-Shabaab leaders is not about whether to wage global jihad. It is mostly about personal rule — namely Godane’s unbridled pursuit of total hegemony over the radical group.  In the end, the larger question about al-Shabaab boils down to not only about global jihad or ideology, but rather is a simple issue of command and control.

2. Al-Shabaab is more lethal and effective now more than ever

We are told that al-Shabaab is ever cohesive and united, as demonstrated by the terror group’s recent bombings in Mogadishu, and the attack on the Westgate mall in the Kenyan capital Nairobi.

Yes, al-Shabaab was effective and daring in these bombings, but one has to ask what enabled all these operations to take place in the first place?

In Somalia, the radical group has gotten a rare opportunity in the government of President Hassan Sheikh Mohamud, whose security apparatus is weak and corrupt.

A year ago, Mogadishu was a lot safer than it is today. According to a recent UN Monitoring Group report, al-Shabaab has infiltrated Mohamud’s administration especially the security and intelligence sectors.

A good illustration is the escape of al-Shabaab member Abdirahman Ali Abukar on September 10 from Mogadishu’s central prison. The fugitive was arrested last year for plotting to kill the country’s deputy head of the national army.  The Somali government has since arrested the prison warden and four correction officers for possibly being bribed by the militant.

This means that as long as the Somali government is corrupt and ineffective, there will be room for al-Shabaab to operate at will. This also means that al-Shabaab is not becoming more cohesive; rather it is a reflection of the government’s inadequacy. Any security lapse in the government is a boon for al-Shabaab.

The attack on Westgate Mall in Nairobi was unique because of the preponderance of foreign jihadists in the operation.

If some of the reports are right, the language of communication among the attackers was English, which means that Godane has finally employed a division of labor tactic for his fighters: using foreigners and foreign-born jihadists for operations outside Somalia, and Somali-born fighters for operations within the country.

This division of labor appeases foreign jihadists who have been clamoring for some action for a while.

In short, al-Shabaab’s recent attacks can best be described as opportunities in security lapses and a strong commitment to remain relevant.

These bombings are cries from the militant group to be noticed once again, to distract its fighters from the horrific killings of some of its own leaders and foreign jihadists, and take the limelight away from Somali President Mohamud’s recent diplomatic successes.

By Hassan M. Abukar. The article is reprinted with permission from Sahan Journal.

To Beat Al-Shabaab Kenya must expel its religious leader 'Sheikh Hassaan' from Nairobi

Over the last 2 years, Kenya has been one of few years successful in militarily engaging Al-Shabaab and, in fact, expelling the Al-Qaeda affiliate group from Kismayo, Somalia’s third largest city. However, the Kenyan government has been tolerating the presence of a young Somali-Kenyan radical cleric by the name of Hassan Mahad Omar AKA Hassaan Hussein Adam “Abu Salman” who is considered the unofficial mufti (a religious scholar who interprets the sharia) of Al-Shabaab.

“Sheikh Hassaan,” as he is popularly known, is not your typical cleric who teaches basic religious doctrine. He is well-educated and has a degree from an Islamic university in Saudi Arabia. He is 34 years old, articulate, sharp, and a man with a mission. He is, for all practical purposes, a scholar who does not shy away from urging his followers to wage jihad. On July 28, 2011, the United Nations Security Council Committee put Sheikh Hassaan on its sanctions list for “engaging in acts that threaten the peace, security or stability of Somalia.” Moreover, the committee accused the young cleric of acts ranging from recruitment for Al-Shabaab and fund-raising for the group to issuing fatwas that call for attacks on the Somali government. Sheikh Hassaan does not carry arms himself but instead provides the religious justification for Al-Shabaab’s heinous crimes. He is highly celebrated in websites sympathetic to the militant group.

Sheikh Hassaan has drawn the ire of Somalia’s religious establishment. In July 2012, a group of 22 Somali scholars met in Nairobi and issued a fatwa of their own, condemning the young radical as a heretic and calling on the Somalis to boycott his books and lectures.

The recent bloody discord in Al-Shabaab’s leadership saw two founders of the group killed by loyalists of the emir of the group, Ahmed Abdi Godane. Others, like Hassan Dahir Aweys and Mukhtar Robow, fled for their lives. Such actions were justified by a fatwa of Sheikh Hassaan, who said that those who create conflict among the mujahidin in Somalia should be killed. Al-Shabaab officials still use that fatwa as the religious justification for liquidating their detractors in the movement.

In 2011, the Kenyan government arrested and held Sheikh Hassaan for a few days but then released him without explanation. It is not clear why the young cleric, whose lectures are widely distributed among Somali jihadists across the globe, was let go. Some say that he is being protected by highly influential Kenyan- Somali politicians who, like Shaikh Hassaan, belong to the Darord-Ogaden clan. Others argue that, perhaps, the young cleric is so popular among Somali jihadists that his arrest might create more problems for the already over-stretched and poorly run Kenyan security forces. One thing is clear: The young cleric is mostly engaged in inciting violence and preaching jihadi ideology among his admirers who in turn direct it against the Somali government.

The Kenyan government has yet to understand that Al-Shabaab’s terrorist attacks in both Somalia and Kenya, like the recent killings in the Westgate Mall of Nairobi, are not born out of a vacuum. They are based, directly or indirectly, on fatwas issued by the group’s de facto mufti, Shaikh Hassan, from the comfort of his home in Nairobi.

 

By Hassan M. Abukar, a freelance writer and political analyst.

(Reprinted with permission from African Arguments, September 25, 2013).

Omar Hammami: The Rise and Fall of a Foreign Jihadist

“History has proven that the Somalis generally do not want any influence from Al-Qaeda or foreigners in their internal affairs.”—Omar Hammami.

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Omar Hammami, the American jihadist with Al-Shabab, Somalia’s Al-Qaeda affiliate, was killed on Thursday by Al-Shabab fighters according to a report by AP. He was 29 years old. He had been hunted by Godane, the emir of Al-Shabab and his henchmen for over a year and half. It was only on April 25 when he tweeted that an Al-Shabab assassin shot him in the neck.

Born and raised in Daphne, Alabama, to a Syrian father and an American Baptist mother, Hammami grew up in a privileged life. He was raised as a Christian because his father was not a practicing Muslim. As a child, Hammami won awards in Sunday school. Only in his teens when the father became interested in Islam did the son become Muslim. In high school, Hammami became, in his own words, a Salafi, an individual with a literal and puritanical approach to Islam. He started dressing in a certain way and grew a big beard. His father, who by that time had become the head of the Islamic center in their hometown, was not pleased with the path his son had chosen. Hammami fit the typical profile of a confused young man with an identity crisis: He dropped out of school, had toxic relationships with his parents, had difficulty keeping a steady job, and fantasized about a future far removed from reality. Hammami’s discord with his father led to his expulsion from the family home. It became apparent that his father’s lofty expectation of Hammami becoming a doctor was never going to materialize.

Hammami held an assortment of low-wage jobs in Alabama such as counselor at the local YMCA and janitor in the very mosque of which his father was president. He did not have a lot going for him in Alabama and moved to Toronto, Canada. Once again, he worked in odd jobs such as delivering milk to Somali refugees. He met a young Somali woman and they married. The couple moved to Egypt so that Hammami could pursue a degree in Islamic studies at the prestigious Al-Azhar University. However, the young husband, and now father, was restless. He was itching to go to a Muslim country where a jihad was being waged. Somalia was an alluring prospect because in that year of 2006 the country was run by the Union of the Islamic Courts. Hammami took a flight to the United Arab Emirates without informing his wife and from there he went to Somalia. He wanted to be a martyr and ended up abandoning his wife and their infant daughter in an alien country. Hammami never saw his wife and daughter again. The couple divorced because the young wife did not want to return to Somalia, the very country she and her family had fled in the early 1990s.

Hammami found in Somalia young jihadists, some foreigners, who were in the midst of what they called ‘jihad’ against the Ethiopian troops and the Somali government forces. He felt at home and received training in guerilla warfare. In 2007, a federal warrant for his arrest was issued in the U.S.

It was a tough life for the American living in Somalia because he was in a place seemingly resigned to absolute poverty. He remained ensconced with fellow jihadists in the jungle and, at times, in small villages with no modern amenities. Food was scarce; ants were plenty and a nuisance, lions bellowed nearby, and Ethiopian army helicopters, first, and American drones, later, hovered in the skies looking for the militants. All these challenges did not frazzle Hammami: He wanted to die for the sake of God. But the young man, at the time 22, had a habit of sticking his neck out to question military strategies and criticize policies. In his 127-page autobiography that he posted online in 2012, aptly titled “American Jihadist,” Hammami stated that he was constantly labeled as a “virus” and “a trouble maker” bent on challenging authority. When some disgruntled foreign fighters decided to leave Somalia, Hammami stuck around. He saw his future in that African country. The leaders of the Al-Shabab militant group he joined in 2007 were impressed with his enthusiasm, loyalty, wry sense of humor, and his fluency in English and Arabic. Most of all, he was a white man who could make strides in recruiting young Muslims in the West. Hammami relished being a recruiter and mouthpiece for the radical group. His videos were occasionally funny and entertaining: A villainous figure that did not appear villainous on the internet.

But, then, Hammami was not one to stay quiet. He had a penchant for making trouble.

Last March, 2012, Hammami appeared on the internet claiming that Al-Shabab militants were trying to kill him because he disagreed with the group regarding the application of sharia, strategy, and the course of jihad in Somalia. The Al-Shabab leaders were not pleased with the public rants. After several months of tolerating Hammami’s “childish petulance,” the group lashed out at him and accused him of seeking fame at the expense of his fellow jihadists. It was also in that month of December 2012 that Hammami was added to the FBI’s Most Wanted list.

On April 25, 2013, an Al-Shabab assassin shot Hammami in the neck. It was not a critical injury. However, it became clear that Godane, the emir of Al-Shabab, was not letting any internal opposition to his leadership go unpunished.

Hammami was not your typical jihadi. He had a sense of humor and he employed a unique technique in appealing to would-be jihadists in the West. He sang jihadi rap songs and relished in taunting the U.S and members of the Somali government. In a way, despite his radical ideology, he was goofy. “I would also lead [fighters] in singing Nashids [Islamic songs] in an obnoxious loud voice while other people were sleeping or doing ‘serious’ things. I would also go on long passionate rants about everything that was wrong with our situation and then end it all rolling in laughter like a deranged hyena,” he said in a sardonic self-mocking way. When asked if he would ever return to America; why or why not— he replied: “The “why not” would have to be Eric Holder [the United States Attorney General], war ships, most wanted pictures, and kangaroo courts.” Hammami, in an interview with VOA two weeks ago, said that a return to Somalia was not an option “unless it was in a body bag.” Moreover, he labeled the American drones in Somalia as “racist” because “they only shoot white people.” He added for good effect, “They just want to kill off every white [fighter] they can.”

Someone had asked Hammami if he had some commonalities with the late Steve Jobs because the two were born to a Syrian father, dropped out of college, and were leaders in their respective fields. Hammami simply answered, “I never knew about him.” Hammami, however, said if given three days in Alabama, he would spend time visiting his mother, father, and sister. “Then,” he continued, “I would like to make the rounds of restaurants and get some Chinese food, some hot wings, some Nestle ice cream, some gourmet coffee, and a slew of other foods and beverages.” It is now obvious such opportunity will never come along.

Hammami’s old colleagues in the Al-Shabab group did not laugh when he started making snide remarks about Godane, the adroit manipulator and punitive leader. Godane was furious and vowed to flail the young American fighter.

Omar Hammami’s jihadist career was a nexus of religion, bravado, and self-promotion. He will best be remembered as the hip hop jihadist who ran afoul of Al-Shabab, a terrorist outfit that has never deviated from its mission to kill and maim. Jihad, as Hammami used to say, is not fun, but instead is a serious and dangerous enterprise. He was right. His death is the best confirmation.

Somali-American Promotes Better Turkish-Somali Relations

Ahmedei Cheikgurei is both mad and ecstatic about recent events in Somalia. He is mad because of last month’s suicide bombing in Mogadishu in which Al-Shabaab terrorists attacked the Turkish embassy. One Turkish security officer was killed; the perpetrators and half dozen others were wounded. He is ecstatic because, even after this heinous attack, the Turkish government has declared that it would not withdraw from Somalia and cease its humanitarian aid to that country.

“I never doubted that Turkey would stand by Somalia,” said Cheikgurei. “Turkish people are known for their great hospitality, moral virtue, warmth, compassion and humanity.”

Cheikgurei, a Somali-American leader and a top officer of the Turkish-Somali American Friendship Association, is quick to point out that Turkey was the first country that came to Somalia’s rescue during the massive famine in 2011 and that Prime Minister Recep Tayyib Erdogan was the first non-African leader to visit Mogadishu in more than 20 years. He brought the plight of the suffering Somalis to the world’s attention.

Both the Turkish government and the Turkish people have since donated hundreds of millions dollars to Somalia. In 2012 alone, Turkey donated $365 million.

“Turkey is building schools, hospitals, roads, and soccer stadiums, and rehabilitating the main airport, parliament building, and huge markets to spur the economy as well as offering thousands of scholarships to Somali students,” said Cheikgurei.

What separates Turkish aid to Somalia from other relief projects in Somalia is that it is concrete, unique, and observable, remarked Cheikgurei.

“The Turks in Mogadishu drive their own cars, trucks, and heavy equipment,” he said.

In contrast, Cheikgurei said the United Nations (UN) and other international non-government organizations (NGOs), are nestled in the comfort of Nairobi, Kenya, “sipping cappuccino and constantly talking about capacity building and empowerment.”

Cheikgurei sees that “arms-chair” approach to aid as counter-productive.

“How can you build capacity and empower people when you hop on a plane from Nairobi to Mogadishu every once in a while, like a tourist?” he asked.

Ahmedei Cheikgurei is no stranger to Turkey. He lived there in the 1990s and understands the country and its culture. Moreover, he speaks Turkish fluently and occasionally interprets for Turkish officials who visit the Somali communities in the U.S.

Cheikgurei, who holds an advanced degree in organization management and leadership, is also the chief executive officer of the new Global Impact Resource Group (GIRG), an international development company that provides social and humanitarian services.

“My colleagues in GIRG and I aspire to transform Somalia into a twenty-first century nation,” he explained.

Over the past 13 months alone, Cheikgurei has visited Turkey three times. He also visited his hometown, Mogadishu, and met with Somali government officials and Turkish diplomats, engineers, medical doctors, educators, and aid workers.

“Somalia can learn a lot from Turkey, especially how to run the state,” said Cheikgurei. “We Somalis are fortunate to have a country like Turkey going out of its way at this juncture of our existence to lend us a helping hand.”

Somalia desperately needs that helping hand. The country has experienced a bloody civil war that has lasted for more than 21 years. Many people have died and the country’s infrastructure has been utterly destroyed. Finally, last fall, Somalia elected a new president, Hassan S. Mohamoud, and the international community has recognized his government.

Mohamoud has publicly acknowledged Turkey’s role in helping Somalia. “The Turkish government is one of our determined and dependable allies,” he said after Al-Shabaab bombed the Turkish embassy in Mogadishu on July 27th of this year. “We have new schools and hospitals because of the [Turks] extraordinary work.”

Somalia needs what Cheikgurei calls the “Turkish model” in development. That model focuses on “needs rather than wish lists [of aid projects] made in European capitals,” he said.

Somalia, according to Cheikgurei, is on the right track in its recovery. “Thanks to friends like Turkey,” he said smiling.

Hassan M. Abukar is a freelance writer and political analyst.

(This article is reprinted with permission from Sahan Journal, September 3, 2013).

Does Wardheernews Perpetuate Stereotyping?

I woke up early Tuesday (August 27) morning and was checking the latest news with my laptop when I saw a flashing headline in Wardheernews titled, “Midgaans and the Ethiopians are fighting for the last Place in Somaliland.” The article was written by Mark Hay and reprinted from Vice. My initial reaction was one of bewilderment. Is this a typo? The word “Midgaan” is a pejorative in Somalia. It is a word used by clannists and the ignorant to refer to a cluster of minority groups. The problem is more acute in the Somaliland region than any other part of Somalia.

The reporter from Vice himself mistakenly wrote that these minority people’s “actual name” is “Midgaan” and that the groups encompass “the Timal (sic), Yibir, Gaboye and other groups.” He also noted the name “double[s] as an insult.”  He added that some “Midgaans” still “see it as a connoting pseudo-slavery in Somali society, where they have traditionally been restricted to ‘unclean’ work like barbering, blacksmithing, infibulation, and leatherwork.”

I am disappointed that a major Somali website like WDN would reprint such a vulgar and tasteless article that demeans an entire community in the name of investigative journalism. It is one thing to cover the plight of a minority group, but insulting them by using the very name that they were given by their oppressors is abominable. A similar example would be writing about the lack of employment opportunities for many African-Americans in inner cities and then debasing them in an article that starts with the “N” word.

I believe that WDN should never have posted the article because of its racist and demeaning title. The piece did not add to our knowledge of what the minority groups face in terms of loss of job opportunities. Last year, WDN posted a TV news clip from the Universal channel that dealt with Daami, a neighborhood in Hargeisa that is inhabited by minority groups. That show was informative and analytical and not a single pejorative word was uttered. This kind of news coverage is what we need, not knee-jerk articles that perpetuate racist labels and symbols.

Each of the minority groups the article mentioned has a real name. The Tumal, the Yibir, and the Madhiban are proud of their names, but they feel insulted when they are called “Midgaan” a pejorative label that connotes a sense of superiority by its user. These minority groups have traditionally performed skills that other Somali nomads could not or did not want to perform. What the writer calls “unclean jobs” (barbering, blacksmithing and leatherwork) are what has sustained Somalia’s economy for hundreds of years. It is ironic that these so-called “menial jobs” are careers highly touted in many parts of the world. What is wrong with barbering, leatherwork, and blacksmithing? It is perhaps only the ignorant who do not appreciate such lines of work. As Abraham Lincoln once said, “There are no menial jobs, only menial attitudes.”

Is the Somali President in Cahoots with Al-Shabaab?

Recently, former prime minister of Somalia, Ali Khalif Galeyr, accused the Somali government under the leadership of President Hassan S. Mohamoud of having a secret working relationship with Al-Qaeda affiliate Al-Shabaab, especially in regards to the tumultuous region of Jubaland.

In an interview with a Somali channel in Minneapolis, Galeyr claimed that the government has what he called “gacan-saar” (a secret handshake; an understanding between two parties) and that the subject has become a thorny issue between the Western powers such as the United States, the United Kingdom, neighboring countries, and Mogadishu. 

“These dealings between the federal government and Al-Shabaab is what led to the last minute cancellation of President Mohamoud’s invitation to attend the G-8 summit,” said Galeyr.

Galeyr, who is a member of the Somali parliament, lamented about the increasing violence in Mogadishu which he said was worse than the time of former President Shaikh Sharif Shaikh Ahmed. The spike in violence, said Galeyr, has manifested itself in street bombings, suicide missions, and political assassinations, and is due to the fact that the security forces are not organized and disciplined. The problem, he added, is due to the absence of civil service in tact when President Mohamoud came to power last fall. Unlike in other countries where politicians come and go, explained Galeyr, “Somalia has no permanent civil service.”

Galeyr reserved his harshest criticism to President Mohamoud himself for the latter’s incompetence and series of missteps.

“No Somali president has been received in the US and UK, the way this president was,” pointed Galeyr. “In the three days Mohamoud was in the U.S. for official visit, he met President Obama, members of the Congress, the World Bank and the International Monetary Fund (IMF).”  

Despite the world recognition accorded to the new Somali government, Galeyr blamed President Mohamoud for squandering such a golden opportunity. The president’s secret relations with Al-Shabaab, contends Galeyr, is the biggest concern some countries have about him. There are “other issues” of concern as well, said Galeyr, but he failed to name them.

Galeyr claimed that there have been secret telephone exchanges between certain figures of Al-Shabaab and government officials that led to some countries question of President Mohamoud’s true intentions of fighting the radical group.

Another problem with the current administration in Mogadishu, said Galeyr, is the absence of experience from the top echelon of the government. “The president, the prime minister, the minister of interior, and the state minister of presidency all have no government experience,” stated Galeyr. “They are there in the government because they have been friends for a long time.”

Galeyr stated that President Mohamoud met him, along with other politicians, long before the appointment of the current prime minister was announced last November. “I have chosen ‘Saacid’ [the nickname of the current prime minister, Abdi Farah Shirdon] because I have known him for a while, and I do not want to repeat the usual power struggle between the president and the prime minister,” the president told the group. Interestingly, Galeyr said, he had talked to PM Shirdon himself about the president’s encroachment of his duties, and the premier did not mind.

“The duty of the president is clearly delineated in the provincial constitution,” clarified Galeyr. “The executive powers are vested in the council of ministers headed by the prime minister but now it is in one hand.”

That hand is the president’s.

Regarding the latest United Nations Monitoring Group report on Somalia, which accused the government of rampant corruption, Galeyr agreed with the findings. “It is the job of the parliament to investigate these allegations and question the finance minister and the governor of the central bank,” admitted Galeyr, “but so far nothing has been done.” The reason, according to Galeyr, is the fact that the presidency and the leadership of the parliament, under speaker Mohamed Osman Jawari, are in cahoots with each other. The parliament is being run from Villa Somalia, the seat of the presidency, added Galeyr.

Speaker Jawari and President Mohamoud long before they were elected, according to Galeyr, were against the ratification of the current provisional constitution. “Interestingly, the two were elected based on the very constitution that they are violating today.”

On Somaliland, Galeyr accused its president, Ahmed Mohamed Mohamoud Silanyo, of orchestrating a campaign of repression and violence against the people of the Khatumo region. Galeyr extolled the accomplishments of the Khatumo state and said it had brought awareness to its people, young and old, from New Zealand to Minneapolis.

In the interview, Galeyr admitted that he had gotten most of his inside information about the Somali government in Nairobi than in Mogadishu.  Nairobi hosts hundreds of former Somali politicians, wannabe leaders, and amateur political speculators. Authentic news, rumors, and innuendos flow there like a stream of water.  

Galeyr was critical of the provincial constitution last year before it was ratified and the administration of then-President Sharif. However, in this interview, he portrayed Sharif’s administration as more equipped to better deal with the threat of Al-Shabaab. “The Al-Shabaab militants are now bombing Villa Somalia,” said Galeyr, something that the terror group did not do during Sharif’s regime on a regular basis.

 

Only two months ago, Galeyr was the nucleus of five politicians which included three former prime ministers who visited former President Sharif in his home in Uganda. The government in Mogadishu had accused the group of attempting to stage an anti-government coalition to topple the regime.  

Recently, Ali Mohamed Ghedi, another former prime minister, has lambasted at President Mohamoud for trampling on the provisional constitution, sowing discord among Somali clans and communities, failing to avert the continuous violence in Mogadishu, and creating unnecessary doubts about federalism. “The regime in Mogadishu has strayed from the correct path,” said Ghedi.

The reaction of Mogadishu to Galeyr’s recent allegations was swift. A spokesman for the Somali government condemned Galeyr for his “baseless” allegations of a government and Al-Shabaab alliance. “Galeyr has to bring clear evidence or he needs to apologize,” said the spokesman.

The link for the interview is here and it is in Somali

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aekYGBGkwPU