Jinkis, as his friends knew him,
was popular among his fellow countrymen for his unbridled humor, affability,
and technical savviness. He worked as a cab driver, but also moonlighted as a
technician, wedding videographer, and an amateur mechanic.
Jinkis was born in Marka, a
coastal town in southern Somalia, in 1957. He was given his father’s name
“Jinkismale,” which means, “no one [among humans] is like him.” As a youngster,
he enrolled in primary education, but his parents later pulled him out of
school. Instead, he learned a few skills as he worked in various fields as a handy
man.
In the 1970s, Jinkis unrelentingly
pursued his dream of being an electrician. His determination paid off in 1978 when
the American Embassy in Mogadishu hired him. He spoke no English, but he was
proficient in his work and had strong people skills, which earned him the
respect of his employer and colleagues.
In 1991, Jinkis, like thousands of
Somalis, fled to Kenya because of the civil war. For a while, he spent time in the
Utanga Refugee Camp near Mombasa. After a short period, he relocated to Nairobi
where he applied to be settled in the United States. His previous work for the
American Embassy came in handy and he was settled in San Diego in June 1993.
Wisecracking and charismatic, people
listened to Jinkis when he spoke. He had an interesting accent—a blend of
Markan and Benadiri dialects. I remember my nephew, Khalid Barre, then a teen, listening
to Jinkis and watching him with rapt attention. I asked Khalid why he was looking
at Jinkis in that way. Khalid replied, “Abti
(uncle), he speaks Somali in a way that I have never heard.” Jinkis’ speech was
unique and fun.
Somalis sought out Jinkis’ answers
to various questions to elicit his humorous responses. One time, someone asked Jinkis
how many breasts a she-camel has. Jinkis was not amused and said: “Why are you guys
asking me about camels? I grew up in a coastal city. Ask me about fish.”
In another incident, Jinkis was
driving along with three of his Somali co-workers in Poway, a suburb of San
Diego, when a police officer stopped him for speeding. The officer asked Jinkis
why he was speeding. Jinkis swiftly replied: “These guys were telling me my car
is slow, and I wanted badly to show them how fast I can drive.” The officer
laughed and said “That is the most honest answer I have ever heard from a
motorist.”
Jinkis lived behind a Somali café
popularly known as “Calaacal”
(Whining) and would hang around the eatery. Tellingly, he once was heading to
pray at a nearby mosque with another guy. The café was close to two Somali
mosques; one a block away and predominantly Somali-run, the other was also
overwhelmingly attended by Somalis, but Pakistanis ran it and it was two blocks
away. When Jinkis was asked to pray at the closer mosque, he declined and said,
“Ma rabo inaan tukado salaad afaara
qabiil ah” (I do not want to offer a clannish prayer)”. He prayed instead
in the mosque run by the Pakistanis. Still today, his friends remember his odd statement
in amusement. It was a true reflection of the current tribal state of Somalis.
With his dark complexion and straight
hair, Jinkis looked more like an Indian. Occasionally, he was bothered by
customers who automatically assumed he was Indian. “I am a Somali,” he would
curtly reply. However, his unique features were a blessing as he was able to
cultivate more diverse clientele. He had an incredible work ethic as a cabbie
because he sometimes worked seven days a week—from 4 a.m. to 4 p.m. There was
just one hitch: His extremely hectic schedule proved to be detrimental to his
health and well-being as he developed an acute form of hypertension.
In 2012, Jinkis suffered a stroke
and went into deep coma that lasted for a year. Doctors told his friends that
he would last only a week or two. They were wrong. He survived a few more
years, and miraculously came out of coma, and slowly but surely started
returning to his old self. The long coma, however, took a heavy toll and
damaged his kidneys. He was on dialysis for years as he waited for a kidney
transplant.
I met Jinkis in the early 1990s at
the Department of Motor Vehicles. I helped him with his paperwork and
interpreted for him. Since then, we forged a true and lasting friendship. He
was kind, caring, dependable, genial, and a loyal friend, indeed, there were none
like him. Many of the Somalis in San Diego will also miss him because he bent
over backward to help his community. He was a positive soul. May God have mercy on him.